A UNICEF report has just been published which says that British children are the most insecure, the least disciplined and the most unloved children in any European country.I will tell you why this is so, and I would be grateful if you would publicise this in every forum available to you. The reason is: parents don't eat with their children. Let me put that in capitals: PARENTS DON'T EAT WITH THEIR CHILDREN.
Every culture I can think of, outside of the Anglo-Saxon one, makes a point of using mealtimes as a unifying cohesive event. It's primitive, it's atavistic, it's animal (think of gorillas, think of orangutans) : which is why it matters so much. And why it works.
Eating together, sharing, chatting, even arguing - it all matters.
Now, the sociologists and other babblers will give you all sorts of other reasons to explain - or, more sadly, explain away - the UNICEF findings, and probably find someone, eg the government, to blame in the process, but.....the family that eats together, stays together.
And now, for my next trick, I will solve the problems of renewable energy, third world poverty and global warming. Watch this space.
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